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Sunday, April 25, 2010

Resumes - BoomTheTruth

female categories... as i have been told by close female acquaintances. 1 to 10 in no specific order
1. nationality/ethnicity - i know many say they dont care about where people are and its about the person but when people are close in ethnicity they tend to get along better and understand each other on cultural behaviors.
2. religion - is similar to ethnicity even though there are plenty of people who date outside of their religion and alot of people dont care about it but usually if u find someone with the same beliefs the relationship tends to run smoother.
3. family - it is important when a man wants to introduce a girl to his family it shows a simple sign of respect and a great deal of wanting her to fit into your personal life not just his outside life.
4. friends - all people wether men or women need to respect their partners friends but when a guys group of friends truly fit with your personality and everything goes smoothly (they like you, you like them) this definitely helps and strengthens one's relationship
5. habits - this ones tricky because every woman has little bits of things they want in a man. there are of course certain things that will tick a girl off but if his habits tend to be better then worse a girl can and will overlook the bad things.
6. sex - its not all about sex but sex does play an important role. sometimes if its bad you can practice make it better but initially the sex must be good. if the relationship strengthens the sex will as well or wise versa.
7. trust - when a men trusts a woman or at least doesn't doubt her or want to change her this shows he truly cares for her.
8. respect - this is huge woman want and need to be respected. even though there are plenty of women who overlook when guys act like assholes and still stick it out in a relationship, a true partner and loved one will never disrespect you.
9. gentleman - a guy who opens the doors, pays for dinner, and puts you on a pedestal (not spoil you) but treats you like the great woman you are.
10. friendship - a guy your dating not only has to be your partner but also your friend. you should be comfortable to hang out without always wanting to be lovey-dovey. if you two can hang out and be comfortable with each other without growing others out including each others friends and truly are there for each other your relationship will get stronger.

K now these qualities are all well and good, but when a girl completely gets overrun by the list its no bueno. Girls tend to turn a man and dating into an interview process...Women need to understand that yes good qualities are important but they will miss out on alot of good guys that dont make 10 out of 10. Perfect is lets be honest boring and will quickly grow old. So ladies please stop choosing the guys with the better "resume"

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